"Only speak words that make souls stronger."
I had to apologize to someone for this just yesterday. I was speaking with a friend with a particular struggle, and I divulged to her that I have a friend who is also struggling in that way. I gave her name. Now even though these people will probably never meet, there is a chance that they could. It is good to be in the habit of not giving names when speaking of these things, unless the person has given us explicit permission. Though this doesn't seem like slander in the highest degree, it is not a way of building someone up, and, therefore, it is not right. We shouldn't talk about other people's struggles to others. It is not a way to defend their name. If they ask us to tell others that they might pray, too ,then that is a different matter, but we are not to say even the least unsavory thing of someone unless there is a perfectly loving reason for it. My intentions weren't wholly evil (I wanted my friend to know that she isn't alone and that I wish I could bear her burdens better), but I should have known better than to share my friend's name. I was not living up to what I knew was right. Once again, another chance to humble myself. I find this Christian life leaves room for a lot of asking for forgiveness!! Thank you God, that you do not forsake me when I fail you so often. Help me to live better for you...
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